Some Harsh truths masculine men face
There are things that adult men has to go through that adult women and children do not has to go through.
Men are object of success
In the current society that we live in, men are success object. It has being designated that financial wealth has to be obtain by men. Failure to do so, could mean the end of a man’s survival.
It could affect him physically and mentally. It could affect men reproductively, metaphysically, emotionally and spiritually and more much.
Financial wealth is how a man success is measure in society, generally.
On the other hand.
Women and children are loved unconditionally. Is possible for women to go through life without being financially successful.
If you are a man who is financially unsuccessful, nobody will really care whether you live or died
In society, the harsh truth is that men are loved under the condition that they are financially successful.
On the other hand.
There are many women who make the choice to pursue financial success.
Men has no choice but to pursue financial success. Because failure to do so, would mean the end of them.
Currently, that’s just the really. If you are a man Just accept it. You should aim to be as physical healthy as possible, so you can have the energy to pursue financial wealth.
Wealth inequality is a real
The largest portion of wealth in society is control by a small fraction of people. You might had heard about wealth inequality. How the richest 1% owns about half of the world’s wealth.
There is one thing most species has in common, hierarchy.
That’s right, there are many type of hierarchies.
Wealthy hierarchy is one them and the competition amount men is brutal. Statistically speaking, you are or will end up poor and powerless.
In this society, men are expendable.
Instinctually, men wants to protect women and children.
Instinctually, women wants to protect children.
So who protect men?
That’s right, there is no instinct to protect men. No body cares about protecting men.
If you are a man, you must learn to look out for yourself. Otherwise, you might end up homeless and on the street. And that’s saying it in a mild’s way.
That’s just the reality.
Women can have babies and men can not. Nature has dictate that biologically speaking, men are expendable and women are not. Since a specie need to be able to reproduce in order to continue existing.
In the current society the reality is that if you are a man, whether you are financially successful or not. If you are suffering for any reason, people will be less compassionate toward you than toward a women or children.
It might be a hard pill to swallow but that’s the way it is.
A man is screwed if he falls on financial need
A man is really screwed if for some reason he falls behind financially.
A specific example is the U.S welfare state.
A welfare state is suppose to protect it’s citizens during financial crises. However, the current welfare state is designed with different version for men and women.
We won’t go on how horrible is the U.S welfare system compare to some other countries like in Europe.
Instead, let’s think for a moment. People are not suppose to game the welfare system. But let’s see what could happens if someone decided to do so.
If a woman or a man want to game the system ( not counting disability of course).
Can women survive on welfare? The answer is most likely Yes.
Can men survive on welfare? the answer is probably not.
The reason is that generally speaking , men do not qualify for Medicaid, child care, cash welfare. Even when a man do qualify for financial help such as EITC, the man receive about only a tenth as much as women do.
So, there are bias when it comes to financial programs toward men.
Now, this is the one that no matter how much research people do. It just don’t make sense.
If a man falls on financial needs, he can get his driver’s license revoke. Which may affect his ability to earn income. Which may prevent him from paying child support, alimony and others.
If a man falls on financial needs, he can get incarcerated . Which may affect his ability to earn income. Which may prevent him from paying child support, alimony and others.
Why make it more hard for a man to earn income by revoking his driver’s license or remove his ability to earn income by sending him to jail?
Some say that prison is a business for profit.
Other say that there is a deeper and more diabolical agenda. Such as if a country want to end another country’s empire, the best way to do it , it’s to do it from within. Weaken the country’s men as much as possible and the country won’t be able to defense itself.
Other say that men has victimize women through out history and it’s time for men to suffer.
Warning!
If you are a male, there will come a point where people will start seeing you as man. There will come a time that you will not longer will be consider a boy. You will be a man.
So, You went from being instinctually being protected and care fore by women and men alike to now no one cares about you.
On average, women are physically smaller than men. So, now you might be consider a threat.
On average, men compete for survival with other men. So, now you are just competition.
This realization, is often hard and painful.
Welcome to the men’s world. Since ancient times men had killed to protect and compete for survival.
Advice!
If you live in the U.S and you are a Man. Do not get married and Do not have kids. Unless, you are on the top 10% of men that are well off financially.
The reason is, if thing goes wrong, which statistically speaking most likely it will go wrong. You need to be able to take care of yourself and others financially. Because if you are not able to, a world of pain a misery awaits you.
That’s the current reality in the society that we live in
Zero-sum game
On paper capitalism is suppose to be a free market and not a zero sum game. But when you look at the reality of a day to day living. Men are consider financially successful when they are more successful than other man.
Zero-sum game is when a win by one side is a lose by the other side. In other words, for someone to be rich, someone else has to be poor. For someone to win, someone else has to lose.
Just look at large gap of income inequality.
In your search for financial success, men are your competition.
There are some wealthy individuals that believe that we all could be rich and wealthy. Definitely Wish that could be true since that will lead to a more enjoyable life for most.
Final thoughts.
If you are a man, first thing you should do is aim for physical health and financial wealth. You get this two right and everything else will come as bonus. The world will be your play ground.
With those two, you can get married and has as many kids as you want if you wish to do so.
You can provided and protect for your love ones.
You can changed part of the world and help the masses.
That’s it.
Take a calculated risk.
Now, start and adjust as you go.
