Freedom might had screwed you up

We are taught to go out and live free. Here is the reality , by you living free make certain people the most money.

When you doing what you want, you spend the most money, every body make the most money out of people that are making mistake.

Not only are you wasting money making mistakes but you have to spend a lot of money in order to fix it.

There are countless example but let’s use the college student loan example.

College student loan example

There are people that go to college and either drop out or graduate with a huge amount of debt. Not only that but many graduate with an useless degree.

You can spend millions on a business and if it doesn’t work you get to file for bankruptcy and start over. Yet when it comes to student loans, you can’t file for bankruptcy. Talk about a costly mistake.

We are not talking just a few student, we are talking about a huge portion of the people that go to college ended up in debt.

Of course, you can try to make up excuses , like I was young or naïve, my parent didn’t warmed me about it, ect. Whatever the excuse is, whether you are at fault or not, it doesn’t change the fact that it’s a costly mistake.

Another example could be men and women when it comes to relationship

Men and women example

Men

In the western part of world, a man value come from what he can provided and do for others. When a male is born he has to obtain his value. He has to aim for health and wealth.

There are places unless you obtain certain amount of wealth, you just won’t be able to get in or have access to.

There are big portion of the female population that will disqualify a man if certain standard are not met.

In general, if a woman make certain amount of money, that woman want a man that make more money than her.

Because of this the more money a man make , the more options he has because the pool of women is larger. Of course we can also say that the less money he make, the less options he has to get with a female.

Therefore, a man that is not aiming for health and wealth will pay costly. For men the world men live in is base on money.

Women

In the western part of the world, a female value come from how a cute, adorable or pretty she is. Before, you start throwing rocks, listen to the explanation first.

When it comes to relationship, a man doesn’t care how much money a woman make, Since he is suppose to protect and provided. In his mind, her money is useless to him.

That’s why you can often see really rich men marrying young girls with none to little financial status . But you don’t often see really rich girls marrying poor men.

You can be a broke pretty women and get invited into places that men can only dream off.

This bring us to freedom, nowadays, you see women having intercourse out of marriage or having babies without marriage or with not financially stable men.

They beauty is the thing that will allow them to get almost any men they want yet they choose to give it away for free. that’s there is a costly mistake

because attraction is not symmetrical ,

In general, what men are attracted too is not the same that women are attracted too.

For many men, a women that had multiple partners is gross.

This is not the same for many women.

Many women want the same type of man. Rich, tall and handsome. That’s why you keep hearing that 80% of women want the top 20% of men.